In Memory of Dad 1911-2010

My father didn't tell me how to live; 
he lived, and let me watch him do it.  

~Clarence Kelland~

Merwyn H. Ostrem


Merwyn Harlin Ostrem, 99, of Moorhead, MN, died October 3, 2010, at Golden Living Center, Moorhead. He was born August 22, 1911, in Tunbridge, ND, to Jens Anton and Gemina (Drege) Ostrem.

Merwyn was a native of Rugby, ND. After completing his high school education he went to Minot and Fargo to attend commercial college. He took classes in higher accounting and appraisal courses at Northwestern University in Chicago. He completed a series of rural appraisal courses and was a member of the Society of Residential Appraisers.

Merwyn was united in marriage to Olga B. Anderson of Bisbee, ND, on September 18, 1941. They resided in Moorhead from 1951 to the present.

Merwyn began his working career at the Rugby Insurance Company, moving to Minot, ND, to work for Northern States Power. He became the Manager of the Bank of Rolette and moved from there to Western States Life Insurance Company of Fargo as the head of the Mortgage Loan Department for 25 five years. He retired in 1976 as Senior Vice President of Mortgage Loans. He served on the Moorhead Public Service Commission and was a Life-time Member of Rotary International. He was an active member of Our Savior’s Lutheran Church, serving on several boards and singing in the choir. He enjoyed family, traveling and relaxing at the lake.

Merwyn is survived by his wife of 69 years, Olga; daughter Bonita (John) Brennan of Corolla, NC; and son, Tedd (Lois) Ostrem of Roseville, MN. Five grandchildren, Barbra Brennan, Bradley (Jennifer) Brennan, Justin (Amy) Ostrem, Daniel Brennan, and Whitney (Colin) Woelfle; and two great-grandchildren, Anna Brennan and Haakon Ostrem. He was preceded in death by his parents, a sister, two brothers, and a granddaughter, Lindsay Ostrem Roach.


The funeral was Friday, October 8, 2010 in Our Savior’s Lutheran Church of Moorhead.

Merwyn H. Ostrem August 22, 1911-October 3, 2010

Sunday afternoon my father passed away. My mother had come to visit him after his nap. She went to wake him and he had just slept away quietly. He was a quiet man all his life so it was in keeping that he would die quietly. He was faithful in all his dealings in life. God has been good to bless my sister and me with a Godly father and mother for so many years.

Some one has written that life is a "dash"...1911  "-"  2010.  His "dash" was full of a lot of living and giving. I wish he would have been more of a talker so we could have known more fully about his "dash" that now is silent.

His service will be on Friday 11am on October 8th at Our Saviors Lutheran of Moorhead, MN.
A huge thank you to all the folks at Golden Living Center of Moorhead. They were wonderful to our father.

September 27th, 2010

Living with cancer?
It can make its mark on you physically, emotionally and spiritually. It need not however it does have its impact in some way. Discouragement is one. I find that there are good days and not so good days. Choosing to live life to its fullest no matter what the day brings is crucial. I admit that I struggle with the dailyness of life and the uncertainty it brings. Being one who has planned and executed daily activities for the now, the future,  for myself and others makes receiving the unplanned or unexpected a challenge. My head says one thing and my heart another. Where one chooses to rest and rely each day brings life and healing. Choose this day "life".


 By His Light Devotion for today helped remind me of where "life" is...

DAILY INSPIRATION
Monday, September 27th 2010

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Where To Turn...
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I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere to go.  My own wisdom, and that of all about me, seemed insufficient for the day.
~Abraham Lincoln~
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It's comforting to know, that when we have reached the end of all that is in our own power to do, there is yet somewhere that we can go for help.  By far, one of the most powerful weapons in our arsenal, lies in the power of praise/thanksgiving, worship, prayer and supplication.  This being the case, why then, do we so often wait until we have exhausted all other alternatives, and have nowhere else to turn?  Do it now...do it often...in times of trouble, AND in times of triumph!    
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For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers...
~1 Peter 3:12~ 

...The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working].
~James 5:16 (Amp)~

Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God.  And God's peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
~Philippians 4:6,7 (Amp)~
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September 23rd, 2010 Lindsay Beach by Julie Foreman

The blog picture of Lindsay Beach at Camp Wapogasset is from a series of pictures captured this summer by Julie Foreman. Lindsay served as lifeguard and counselor at Wapo. She loved to lead campfires on this beach and so the picture is a fitting testimony to her legacy of ministry in her short 26 years of life. God grabbed her heart in a powerful fashion on this beach. Thanks be to Jesus.

September 22nd, 2010

TWINS WIN!

The Twins did it last night with the help of the White Soxs. What a game. First to win a division championship.

Haakon and Grandpa watched together for a while as we tried to see Mommy and Daddy on TV...what a joy to hold and hug our little guy. He carries on conversations with whoever will listen.

Thank you God that we have the pleasure to share these days together.
Thank you for the gift of life and Your Grace.

September 19th, 2010

Yesterday my parents celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary. Dad was pretty sleepy but able to be up. I forget how remarkable an event this was. Sixty nine years of meals, conversations, trials and triumphs. The ups and downs of daily life shared faithfully with one another. One of the corner stones of their 69 years was their faith journey. Jesus was the center piece of their marriage. Faithfully they would worship and serve as able. Age may have reduced their involvement but not their "living for Jesus".  Those words are from a hymn that my parents taught my sister and me as we grew up. It has continued to echo in my mind this week of their 69th anniversary. The words remind me of their faithful journey as a couple.

Living for Jesus, a life that is true,

Striving to please Him in all that I do;

Yielding allegiance, glad hearted and free,

This is the pathway of blessing for me.

Refrain

O Jesus, Lord and Savior, I give myself to Thee,

For Thou, in Thy atonement, didst give Thyself for me.

I own no other Master, my heart shall be Thy throne.

My life I give, henceforth to live, O Christ, for Thee alone.

Living for Jesus Who died in my place,

Bearing on Calvary my sin and disgrace;

Such love constrains me to answer His call,

Follow His leading and give Him my all.

Refrain

Living for Jesus, wherever I am,

Doing each duty in His holy Name;

Willing to suffer affliction and loss,

Deeming each trial a part of my cross.

Refrain

Living for Jesus through earth’s little while,

My dearest treasure, the light of His smile;

Seeking the lost ones He died to redeem,

Bringing the weary to find rest in Him.

Refrain

September 14th, 2010

Took Haakon to the barn recently to ride on the "Famous Woody" school horse of the year. Woody is 32 yrs old but still used in teaching riding lessons for kids and adults. Haakon enjoyed Woody.

Learning to enjoy these times with loved ones is a special gift. All Creation shouts of God's presence and glory.

September 7, 2010 "First Day of School"

Sent my Lois of to school this morning with book bag, paper bags, purse and tea-to-go..."first day of school" for teachers too. Lois has been at school on-and-off for two weeks getting ready for this day and now it's here. Prayers go out for all the teachers, students, aides and staff as they help teach our children. It is a great calling to serve in the education of our children.

An Old Testament verse comes to mind as we are all called to teach and raise up our children in Christ. Renew our covenant today as parents, grand parents or great-grand parents to teach our children "the Way" of the LORD.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9

 ⁴"Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. ⁵You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. ⁶And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. ⁷ You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. ⁸ You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. ⁹ You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.       

September 3rd, 2010

This is what I have observed to be good: that it is appropriate for people to eat, to drink and to find satisfaction in their toilsome labor under the sun during the few days of life God has given them—for this is their lot.    Ecclesiastes 5:18


Labor Day is just around the corner. Many are out of work and struggling with great challenges in their lives today. Some have just heard that they are no longer needed in their workplace. Difficult days are ahead. How one reacts to the changes unwanted in our lives reflects our focus.
We can choose to be grateful for the time or what we had or resentful for what we do not have.

My new calling is to serve Lois in this new season of our life. I am to be her helpmate as God designed.
I could be resentful that I do tasks around our home or thankful that I am able to do some of these for Lois.
Our lives as we knew them have changed but our calling has not. We are to serve God and others as we are able. Today I give thanks for the "...few days of life God has given..." to serve as I am able. I give thanks for the labor I have been given to be a helpmate.

August 29, 2010

From Our Daily Bread Devotional
August 29, 2010

Robert Lowry felt that preaching would be his greatest contribution in life. However, this 19th-century pastor is best remembered for his gospel music and hymns. Lowry composed words or music for more than 500 songs, including “Christ Arose,” “I Need Thee Every Hour,” and “Shall We Gather at the River?”
In 1860, as the United States teetered on the brink of civil war, Lowry wrote these enduring words that focus not on threatening circumstances but on the unchanging Christ:
What though my joys and comforts die?
The Lord my Savior liveth;
What though the darkness gather round!
Songs in the night He giveth:
No storm can shake my inmost calm
While to that refuge clinging;
Since Christ is Lord of Heav’n and earth,
How can I keep from singing?
Lowry’s confidence in God during difficult times echoes the psalmist’s words: “Do not put your trust in princes, nor in a son of man, in whom there is no help. . . . Happy is he who has the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God” (Ps. 146:3-5).
Whether we react to life with faith or fear depends on our focus. Knowing that “the Lord shall reign forever” (v.10), how can we keep from singing?

If you keep in tune with Christ, you can sing even in the dark.

"99" and Doing Fine!! 8/23/10

We celebrated Dad's 99th birthday today with cake, ice cream, coffee and pictures. Dad was having a "C-Type" day but gave us as good a smile as he was able today. It was a sleepy day for Dad but he hung in there with all the friends and family. Mom was the provider of the cake and ice cream...really good stuff.

Again Lois and I are grateful for the many years God has given us to share with my folks. God's faithfulness over the generations is truly a gift one does not deserve but can only rejoice in.

Know therefore that the LORD your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments.  

Deuteronomy 7:9

"99" plus one day!

August 18th, 2010

The Hands of Time...

Three sets of hands representing three generations.

On Sunday the hands of my father holding the watch will be 99. We asked him if he would be shooting for 100 and he shook his head saying, "That's a long time." We have added a fourth set of hands two years ago with Haakon being born on Amy and Justin's wedding anniversary. We are blessed and give thanks for the many days we have shared as a family. Mom and Dad have been there for the joys and sorrows we've had. Time does not wait for anyone. We are to be fruitful in our time and a blessing to others. My folks have been just that in our lives. 

Rejoice^* in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice.^{* 5}Let your gentleness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. ⁶Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. ⁷And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:4-7

 

Happy Birthday Dad!

August 15th, 2010

I received and email in the past few days wondering if everything was ok with my health. Thanks for the concern and willingness to ask. I have been to Mayo at the end of July. The nodes in my neck have not changed and if they have they are not detectable upon physical examination. The CT scan indicated a very slight change but not remarkable. This is very, very good news!

Lois and I have had a "full summer" so to speak. Whitney and Colin's wedding consumed our time up to the middle of July. However we have now had time to recover and enjoy the "after glow" of the wedding and the beauty of this "wet" summer. I have found rest and reduced stress to have improved my general well being. Lois and I enjoy our daily devotion time more and more. It is so interesting and amazing how the short little devotions we share tend to be so "right on" for our lives that day. The Spirit is alive and working in our lives.

July 29, 2010 Tall Ships in Duluth

We had the privilege and honor to join Scott and Cathie on their boat to escort the "tall ships" into Duluth harbor on July 29. It was a perfect day and the ships are amazing. Pictures don't do justice to the majestic presence they are on the open water. So many ships in one place was exciting to see. The Bounty was in the movies Mutiny on the Bounty and Pirates of the Caribbean. We give thanks for God's wonderful creation and friends who shared their day with us.

Our Gracious Hosts Scott and Cathie

July 18, 2010

It has been a long time since my last post. Thanks to those who have reminded me that I have been silent for awhile. We have been busy with the preparations and wedding of our daughter, Whitney to Colin Woelfle. It was wonderful. The preparations were intense but worth every moment invested in the great event. Whitney Woelfle is now a married women!

July 10th was a bit hot like the day Lois and I were married 40 years earlier on July 10th. The Woelfle's and Ostrem's gathered to join our children in marriage. I had the privilege of officiating. Who would of thought this would be my role 40 years earlier. Lois married a dentist who would sixteen years later become a minister.

My life with Lois has been a joy and gift. The vows taken have been lived out in very tangible ways over the past forty years...to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God's holy ordinance; and to you I pledge my faithfulness. 


Vows are sacred covenants of the heart. Jesus has held us up in all of these times. When it seemed the most difficult or dark, Jesus was always there. We have been strengthened to continue the journey by the experiences shared as husband and wife. Our vows have been reminders of God's faithfulness to us in Christ. We have been blessed by our family and faith for over forty years. We give thanks for all that we have shared together as we celebrate the marriage of Colin and Whitney.

June 28, 2010

Job 5:26

You shall come to your grave in ripe old age,

like a sheaf gathered up in its season.

Lois' god-father, Rudy died this week at the age of 97. His service will be Tuesday.

Rudy was full of life and humor. He always had a new and fresh joke to share with us when we visited. Even though he was impaired by a stroke a few years ago his spirit and life were not.

A gentle carpenter and man of God from Moorhead who was well respected for his trade was still building in his late 80's-early 90's. More of a "strawboss" at the end he still would share his knowledge and skills with others who would implement his wisdom.

Blanche and Rudy were close to Lois and her parents. To be blessed by loved ones of such an age in this season of our lives has been one of God's gifts to us. We give thanks for Rudy and the joy he brought to our lives and relationship.

June 23, 2010

On Monday we paid our last respects to brother-in-law, Le. The visitation and service was a blessing. Our family and friends gathered before the service to visit and share some time together. The comment was  made..."we should do this more often under better circumstances."

We take the days we get and make the effort to share those days together no matter what the situation may be. Funerals or weddings, baptisms or graduations, whatever the occasion we choose to do life together "that" day.

I am learning to appreciate the "now" more and more. "Now" we can make a difference. "Now" we can hold or help each other. "Now" is the "time"... for us.

June 19th, 2010

Wes Michaels died on Thursday as a tornado destroyed his C-store in Mentor MN. It was Wes' 58th birthday. I had met Wes a couple of times with friends of ours who live only a couple miles from the store on Maple Lake. Wes was off on Thursday but as he watched the weather approach he went to the store in time to have his daughter and another woman huddle in the freezer as Wes covered his daughter's body with his own. His daughter, Heidi survived but Wes died saving his daughter's life.

As Father's Day arrives tomorrow I am moved by the loving heroic act of this father for his child. Laying his life down for hers.

God the Father covered us all with His Son's Body to save us from certain death from our sin. His Body took the debris of sin into Himself to save us. It is this Act of Grace that saves us. We place our faith and trust in Jesus the Christ, the Son of the Living God, Savior and Lord who covered us with His body in death. At the center of our faith is this Act of Grace available for all.

John's Gospel centered on this Act of Grace...
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.  John 3:16
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.  John 15: 12-13

June 17th, 2010

Last night at 10:18pm my brother-in-law, Le passed away. He had fought a valiant fight with cancer. Loss of a loved one leaves a "hole" in our lives that will not be replaced with someone else. Jesus heals the "scar" of the loss of our loved one. Many times it happens over a longer period of time.

Le was my friend and family. We laughed and enjoyed many wonderful days together. I will miss him. "He made me laugh." He did and many others. His request is to have that saying be on his head stone. It will be true and will make others remember the times he made us laugh. 

Please hold Kathie (Lois' sister), their two sons, Le Michael and Chad (wife Amanda and granddaughter Lyla) in your prayers. 

He was a proud grandpa and father.

June 16th, 2010

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...
~Ecclesiastes 3:1~

On Sunday afternoon Haakon and I took a nap. When I woke up Haakon was huddled in the corner of the crib. He was looking for something...I picked him up and we hunted for his "Nuk" with no Nuk to be found in the crib. 

So we both got down of the floor to look under the crib. There it was way back in the corner. I pointed it out to Haakon and he said, "Want me to get it?" Surprised I said, "Think you can?"  Off like "GI Joe" he bellied his way to the corner and back only to return not with one but with "2-Nuks" and smile on his face. 

This season of our lives is rich with new discoveries and reclaiming the joy of the daily journey. 

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...
~Ecclesiastes 3:1~ 

June 10, 2020

One month to the wedding! Details are getting covered one-by-one... The couple is excited and anticipating a wonderful day.

We have 12 yards of rock in the driveway to be spread Friday if the rain holds off. Preparations go further than one expects but it is timely. Friends have come forward to help in many ways which is a blessing.

I visited my Dad and Mom yesterday. Surprised them. They were sitting in the dinning area looking out at the beautiful day. Dad was so pleased to see me. We spent the afternoon together as family. Then I took Mother shopping. We had a great time. No pressure; just time together. It was "smell the roses" time for us.

I was reminded of Deuteronomy 6:4b-9...My parents taught me this scripture...Thanks Mom and Dad!

The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

June 3rd, 2010 A picture from Grandpa Jerry

Grandpa Jerry caught this moment on Easter 2010...
Grandpa Jerry notes that "Grandpa's keys" were more captivating than the "plastic eggs"...
What grasped your "attention" on Easter 2010?
Empty Cross or Empty Tomb?

June 1st, 2010

A bridal shower for Whitney and Colin was this weekend. With our family gathered we enjoyed the anticipation of the wedding to come. Our Haakon met my aunt Edna who was married to my uncle Haakon who died suddenly an number of years ago at the age of 53. Our little Haakon won the hearts of all those gathered for the shower.

We all headed to the nursing home to see Dad who was very lucid again. It was fun to watch Dad watch Haakon. As we left Haakon repeated several times "Bye Bye Great Grandpa!" It amused my father who smiled and said "Good bye". Life happens in moments. Precious moments never to be recaptured but remembered for a life-time.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven...

May 25, 2010 Stormy night

Psalm 57:1
Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me, for in you my soul takes refuge; in the shadow of your wings I will take refuge, till the storms of destruction pass by. 


Sitting here watching the rain and lightening. The thunder rolls in the background. I remember as a little boy of about 5 years of age sitting (hiding) in the closet with my sister as the thunder and lightening surrounded our house. Everything seemed to light up as the flash of lightening and then the clap of thunder echoed through our little house. I was afraid but not sure of what. When the calm would come it was such a relief. The storm had past and we were ok.

Life has its storms. What we do in the storm is as important as the storm. Fear or faith? Where will I go?

Pray the prayer of Psalm 57:1...

"Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me,
 for in you my soul takes refuge; 

in the shadow of your wings I will take refuge, 
till the storms of destruction pass by."

May 19, 2010 Mom's 92 today!

My mother is celebrating 92 years today and going strong. She is headed for the nursing home to visit my father who will be 99 in August. What a blessing to have good health and be able to get around as she does. We visited this morning for some time and it was upbeat and positive. Age is more about attitude than chronology. You can be "old" before your time if you choose too be. My folks have always been "young at heart" and ready to go with the slightest invitation. That's my kind of "old". Bring it on!

"Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live..." Deuteronomy 30:19b

My Mom in her wedding dress this past November...still fits!
A "kid at heart"...

Monday May 17, 2010 Lindsay Ostrem Roach Scholarship

This is the Hyacinth that Lindsay planted the summer of 2003. It keeps coming up each spring as a reminder of the hope of "new life" we have in Jesus.

Tonight we had the privilege once again to award two scholarships to Roseville Area High School Seniors who are a part of the Connections program at RAHS. Mary Hanula and Jan Johnson are their instructors. They were mentors and partners on the Connections Team that Lindsay was a teacher for several years before her death.

Ironically tonight at 7pm as we were preparing to present the scholarships it was six and a half years to the hour of her death. Hard to believe yet true. In the giving of the scholarship Lindsay's legacy continues to bear fruit. She loved to teach and believed strongly in the Connections program that help 9-12th grade students overcome educational hardship and personal challenges to become successful graduating seniors of RAHS. One of the mother's of one of the students award the scholarship said that they have four children and this was the first one to receive an award. We are very proud of the students who have received the scholarships. They will be graduating with strong 3.+ GPA's. Some of the highest in the time we have been awarding the scholarship. To us that means the Connections program works and we are proud to be able to help some of the Connection students pursue further education in their areas of interest. Both of the young women recipients are setting their educational goals on teaching. Lindsay could not ask for more. We are blessed this night by the memory and life of our daughter, Lindsay.

May 16, 2010

We had grandson Haakon for the weekend. I stayed over Thursday night and was there to get him up and spent Friday with him until Grandma Lois could join us. Haakon and Grandpa went out to see Junior at the stable...Haakon was thrilled over "all the neigh-neighs". It was a blast. He is at the age where he carries on simple conversations of innocence. They are precious and not to be missed. Lois and I are so blessed to be able to enjoy these days with our family. We are a little weary too :-) but worth every minute!

May 13, 2010

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the people of old received their commendation. By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible.  Hebrews 11:1-3 ESV


Dark and dank days are upon us. For some of us these are long days. I remind myself that God's incredible creative hand continues to give us days to serve and love others. My eyes are to be on those around me that I may serve, care for or pray for. God lifts the heaviness of the day with the joy of touching others lives with hope. Our faith in Jesus Christ births hope. Hope that will not fail us.

We cling to Romans 5:1-5 ESV...
Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice  in hope of the glory of God. More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

May 11, 2010

One of the best reasons to be happy today! 

Haakon has my red cheeks.

He has "my heart" too!!

Love you Haakon...

May 10, 2010

I was invited to share my journey with a group tonight. Sometimes your story seems insignificant but never underestimate the power of your story to connect with others. As I looked at the folks gathered I wondered what they would glean from my story. Again the Holy Spirit worked a work that only the Spirit can do. I continue to be amazed at the Spirit's ongoing "Acts 2" work in this world and His Church. Thank you Jesus for your calling and leading.

We spent the weekend with our family and had a blast. I had a lot of Haakon time and loved every minute of it. He's my buddy!

May 6, 2010

Lois thinks I am a little "OCD"...could be :-)

I have accepted my "current calling" in serving my wife in needs around house and help her as I am able.
One of the roles that I have assumed is that of "laundry"...I can "spot" with the best of them!
This morning "my dryer" died...a piece of the siding blew off the front of the house...the two ceiling lights in the hallway went on the fritz...and the garage door cables flew off. Not a bad day :-)

Sometimes one wonders if there is a "cloud" hanging overhead but it is just the way it goes.
Random junk happens in our lives and how we handle them is important. It happens; how will we react?

I will fix what I can and call on my wonderful son-in-law, Brian to help me figure out the rest. Brian has a gift of restoration and creativity. He thinks in creative ways to make things work. I am blessed to have Brian.

I may stay up until 1am worrying (thinking) about what needs to be done but it won't get it done. Last night I finally prayed..."Jesus, quiet my mind and spirit so I may rest."  Rest came and we bought a new dryer tonight! One down!!!

May 2, 2010

I had a call from my Mother and Sister today from the nursing home where my Father stays. He was having a "5 star day" according to my Mother. We visited for a few minutes and then she gave the phone to my Father. He said, "Hello"...and after telling him we would see him next week he said, "That would be nice." It was so good to hear my Father convey a thought so clearly. It is becoming more infrequent still always a gift.

I've thought of questions I wish I had asked of him but never did. He has always been a man of very few words yet great kindness. How is it we miss the opportunities before us for whatever reason? No regrets; yet questions of his life remain a mystery.

Our Father in Heaven left no questions of who He is...revealing himself in the form of Jesus, the Christ.
If we have questions of God's love or justice we need only look to Jesus, the Word of God's love and justice for all.

April 29, 2010

Being a parent is a life-long endeavor. It is a great joy and hard work. Children don't choose their parents. We choose to be parents and are forever parenting. Sometimes well and sometimes not so well. I have found myself sitting on the bedside of our children more than once asking them to have patience with their father...I told them I was trying to be the best parent I knew how to be but from time-to-time I would come up short.
I believe forgiveness and grace are acquired in life by showing forgiveness and grace. I believe trust is earned by showing one can be trusted and by being honest and faithful. I have great kids and they have become precious adults. God has given them Godly partners to share life together. We have been given a extra gift of love in the person of a grandson. We look forward to more grandbabies! Being a parent or grandparent is a life long endeavor that God has given us the privilege of experiencing. Now I understand Grandma Elsie's and Grandma Olga's joy in life as they shared time with their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. God is good. Thank you for the many "gifts' we have in our lives.

April 26, 2010

A few sentences caught my attention today from one of the devotionals we have for daily use.

"The book of Acts concludes with Paul confined in Rome, living under guard in a rented house, where he “received all who came to him, preaching the kingdom of God and teaching the things which concern the Lord Jesus Christ” (Acts 28:30-31).

Instead of focusing on his restrictions, Paul saw opportunities. That’s the key for us as well. There is a universe of humanity within our reach today."  by David C. McCasland

"Instead of focusing on his restrictions, Paul saw opportunities."  I need to remind myself daily of this insight. Obstacles or Opportunities. Interruptions or Opportunities. Restrictions or Opportunities. It really is a choice. It is a conscious choice to be made daily...encounter by encounter. Living under God's leading...choose life.

Deuteronomy 30:19-20a

"I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, 20 loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and length of days..."

April 25, 2010

Attended a "Cowboy Church Service" this morning. Lots of music and some preaching. The text was Matthew's Gospel chapter 6 reminding us "not to worry about what we will wear or what we will eat but seek first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added on to you." The pastor used the illustration of a "horse"...surprise; surprise! A horse lives in the present and not in the future or past. We, on the other hand, worry about the past or future and miss out on the present moment. He asked a good question, "If you think worrying about the future helps...try to remember what you were worrying about last year at this time." Great question. Most of the things we tend to worry about never come to past. Learning to live in the present with a "sure and certain hope" for the future in Christ is a rich gift. It was a good service inviting us to live in the Light of Christ each day...sound familiar?
Blessings to you all.

Speaking of "presents"!

Oh how we love him!

April 23, 2010

The end of the week...the beginning of a weekend. Daily happenings become daily blessings if we look for them. A smile, a word of encouragement, a hug, a tear or whatever you may encounter become touches of God's love for us through others. Tonight I am grateful for Anne and Jack. They have come alongside and walked with us many times through joys and sorrow. Tonight we shared a meal and laughter which enriched our day at the end of the week. Who touched your life this week? Whose life did you touch?
Give thanks!

April 21, 2010

Twins Win Again! Go Twins!

The Flowering Crab Trees are ready to burst forth in full bloom. It will be beautiful!
Not as beautiful as the Empty Tomb of Jesus but beautiful. We are blessed by such beauty and wonder.
May Jesus burst into our lives afresh today. Thanks for all the prayers and kind words.

For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made.  Romans 1:20a


If you have time today, read Our Daily Bread for today:
http://odb.org/2010/04/21/false-hope/

April 20, 2010 Good Report...

We spent a good portion of Monday at Mayo. There is always a senses of anticipation and anxiety before I meet with the physicians. The "unknown" is lurking.

However the news was good! There has been no change. We may have a slight med change in the next couple weeks but all-in-all it was a good report. I return in July for another follow up. There is a sense of relief and release in knowing.

Thank you Father, in the Name of Jesus. Pour out your healing Spirit on all who seek your presence.

"But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen."    2 Peter 3.18

April 18, 2010

On the last day, that great day of the feast, Jesus stood 

and cried out, saying, "If anyone thirsts, let him come to 

Me and drink. He who believes in Me, as the Scripture has 

said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water." 

But this He spoke concerning the Spirit, whom those 

believing in Him would receive; for the Holy Spirit was 

not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.

                                                              John 7:37-39

Tomorrow I return to Mayo for follow up on the Mantle Cell Lymphoma and the cardiovascular issues that have resulted from the Stem Cell Transplant. I am confident that the "Living Water", Jesus will be in all things pouring out wisdom, healing and hope. God's hand is upon all things at all times no matter what the season of ones life.

April 17, 2010

We had the joy of going to the local park and playing with Haakon on the "big toy" then off to supper. His words and phrases are becoming clear and longer. Our grandson is growing up too fast. I wonder if Mary, the mother of Jesus had such thoughts as Jesus grew "in wisdom and stature".  Surely she sensed the precious gift she held would grow up. The words of St Luke echo with life and love..."but Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart."

Not one my best quality of pictures but the "subjects are precious".  Easter 2010

April 15th, 2010 "Our Daily Bread" reading for Today

April 16, 2010

The Treasure And The Pots

Listen Now |  Play MP3 (Mobile)READ: 2 Corinthians 4:1-11

We have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us. —2 Corinthians 4:7

It has been said that the Roman Empire ran on olive oil. It was used in cooking, bathing, medicine, ceremonies, lamps, and cosmetics. For decades, olive oil from southern Spain was shipped to Rome in large clay jugs called amphorae. Those jugs, not worth sending back, were discarded in a growing heap of broken shards known as Monte Testaccio. The fragments of an estimated 25 million amphorae created that man-made hill, which stands today on the bank of the Tiber River in Rome. In the ancient world, the value of those pots was not their beauty but their contents.

Because of this, the first-century followers of Christ would have clearly understood Paul’s illustration of the life of Jesus in every believer. “But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us” (2 Cor. 4:7).

Our bodies, like amphorae, are temporary, fragile, and expendable. In our modern world that highly values outward beauty, we would be wise to remember that our greatest treasure is the life of Jesus within us. By God’s grace and power, may we live so that others can see Christ in us.

We are just the clay pots. Jesus is the true treasure within us.  — David C. McCasland

Although my outward shell decays,
I’m inwardly renewed each day,
Because the life and power of Christ
Indwells this fragile jar of clay. —Sper

Christ is seen most clearly when we remain in the background.

April 13, 2010 "18 Months Old"

Hard to believe but 18 months ago today I received my stem cell transplant. They wished me a Happy Birthday early in the morning as we prepared to do the transplant. It has been quite a ride. I have been blessed by generous prayer by many. Thank you!

This morning one of my best friends and brother in Christ stopped by to share words of encouragement and challenge into my life. What a gift to have friends like Tim. I have had another ask me if it (the transplant experience and cancer) had changed me. The answer would be yes. I am changed. I have a "new normal".
My life is filled with joy at each new day. I am at peace where I am right now. I am waiting on Jesus to direct my path in a new season of life. My hope is full and my family is precious. I am able to spend time...valuable time with those who are the most important in my life. Change is difficult but necessary.
In the midst of transition comes faith challenging and strengthening moments. Seeking to be faithful and "Living for Jesus" in these moments have changed me. Being "born anew daily" is so "Lutheran". The Holy Spirit calls, gathers and enlightens in these moments to be changed; to be transformed in the "heart song of Jesus' Way". The Cross before us; the world behind us...choose to follow Jesus.

Today one of my favorite passages in God' Word came to mind...and a favorite prayer of many was shared with me by Tim...

Psalm 103

Bless the Lord, O my soul,
   and all that is within me,
   bless his holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
   and do not forget all his benefits-
who forgives all your iniquity,
   who heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the Pit,
   who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
who satisfies you with good as long as you live
   so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s. 

The Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen. --Reinhold Niebuhr

April 8, 2010

God's ways of communicating with us are awesome. I (by chance today) opened the devotional Streams in the Desert. God's ministering and leading hand stretched out and touched me through the words of the writer. I will share this with you and any who might be struggling with direction or darkness...

Streams in the Desert - Apr. 8

 

April 8

Don't Rush

"Who is among you that feareth Jehovah, that obeyeth the voice of his servant? He that walketh in darkness and hath no light, let him trust in the name of Jehovah and rely upon his God" (Isa. 50:10, RV).


What shall the believer do in times of darkness -- the darkness of perplexity and confusion, not of heart but of mind? Times of darkness come to the faithful and believing disciple who is walking obediently in the will of God; seasons when he does not know what to do, nor which way to turn. The sky is overcast with clouds. The clear light of Heaven does not shine upon his pathway. One feels as if he were groping his way in darkness.

Beloved, is this you? What shall the believer do in times of darkness? Listen! "Let him trust in the name of the Lord, and rely upon his God."
The first thing to do is do nothing. This is hard for poor human nature to do. In the West there is a saying that runs thus, "When you're rattled, don't rush"; in other words, "When you don't know what to do, don't do it." 

When you run into a spiritual fog bank, don't tear ahead; slow down the machinery of your life. If necessary, anchor your bark or let it swing at its moorings. We are to simply trust God. While we trust, God can work. Worry prevents Him from doing anything for us. If our minds are distracted and our hearts distressed; if the darkness that overshadows us strikes terror to us; if we run hither and yon in a vain effort to find some way of escape out of a dark place of trial, where Divine providence has put us, the Lord can do nothing for us.

The peace of God must quiet our minds and rest our hearts. We must put our hand in the hand of God like a little child, and let Him lead us out into the bright sunshine of His love. He knows the way out of the woods. Let us climb up into His arms, and trust Him to take us out by the shortest and surest road. --Dr. Pardington

Remember we are never without a pilot when we know not how to steer.

"Hold on, my heart, in thy believing--
The steadfast only wins the crown;
He who, when stormy winds are heaving,
Parts with its anchor, shall go down;
But he who Jesus holds through all,
Shall stand, though Heaven and earth should fall.


"Hold out! There comes an end to sorrow;
Hope from the dust shall conquering rise;
The storm foretells a summer's morrow;
The Cross points on to Paradise;
The Father reigneth! cease all doubt;
Hold on, my heart, hold on, hold out."

April 7, 2010

Life in the Spirit

Romans 8:1-6 ESV There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.

Living life together is a daily joy and challenge. "Fixing our eyes on Jesus" is the mindset for the Christ follower. Seeking to see Jesus in others is a source of peace and life. When we meet Jesus in another we are graced with His peace and life. "Be Jesus" to someone today. Extend mercy, comfort or a helping hand in the name of Jesus to bring life and peace to someone you know.

April 6, 2010

Family...takes on many aspects as our "family" has grown in wonderful ways over the years. One of our extended family needs prayer. Marilyn, Marc's mother has been hospitalized after surgery and stroke. She is recovering but needs prayer in these tough days. Roger, her husband, is by her side and needs our prayers too. We are thankful for the healing that has been taking place in the past few days. Thank you for your prayers, again.

Easter Sunday April 4, 2010

While they were perplexed about this, behold, two men stood by them in dazzling apparel. And as they were frightened and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, “Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he told you, while he was still in Galilee, that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men and be crucified and on the third day rise.” Luke 24:4-7 ESV


As we worshiped as a family this Easter Morning I heard in a new way the question of why do we seek Jesus among the "dead things" in our lives. Why do we dwell in the past of death and loss when the Word Lives. The Word of Life has been spoken in the face of death...He is risen...Jesus is not dead; He is alive.

Tomorrow Lindsay, our daughter, would have been 33 years old. She had so much to live for and give yet her life was lived in a shorter time than others. Her living testimony to God's love and mercy will forever be before us. She faithfully and courageously lived out her trust in Jesus, the Risen One. Her hope was in the Word of Life of God, Jesus the Christ. With her death we are not to look for her among the dead but with the Living Christ Jesus. We see our Living Hope in the Cross and empty Tomb of Jesus. He lives; so shall those who have died trusting in Christ live.

April 1, 2010 Happy Birthday John and Colin!

Birthdays are great times. We are celebrating brother-in-law John and soon to be son-in-law Colin's birthdays today. God has blessed us with John and Colin. May we be a blessing to them too.
Spring is here!!!

A Psalm for giving thanks.

100:1 Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth!
2 Serve the Lord with gladness!
Come into his presence with singing!

3 Know that the Lord, he is God!
It is he who made us, and we are his;
we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.

4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving,
and his courts with praise!
Give thanks to him; bless his name!

5 For the Lord is good;
his steadfast love endures forever,
and his faithfulness to all generations.